私をストレスのはけ口にしないで!友人がいつも愚痴話してくる

友人のA子(仮名)はちょっとネガティブな所があり、会って話していると最終的には彼女の愚痴話になります。しかも、「結婚したいけど男性と話していても楽しくない」「職場で仕事を押し付けられる」「親がうるさい」など、なーんか周りが全て悪いっていう感じの愚痴ばかりなんですよね。最後には泣き出すので一生懸命になだめるのですが、いつも別れた後ドヨーンとした気持ちになってしまいます。

この前私自身が落ち込む出来事があったんですが、A子に会った時に話すと「いいじゃんN(私)には彼氏いるんだからさ〜それだけでもう十分幸せじゃん」「今日は遊ぶために集まったんだから暗い話は無し」と言われました。自分は会うたびに愚痴だらけなのに、人の事になるとドライすぎませんか⁉︎

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  1. 1. 名無しの激おこさん

    そういう子、たまにいますよね。
    自分の言いたいことは遠慮なくズケズケと言うのに、聞くほうの立場になったら自分が今までしてきたことをコロッと忘れて他人事みたいに聞き流す人って。
    こういう自己中タイプは何を言っても無駄なんですよね。
    完全に自分の世界に入っちゃっているから、他人の気持ちがまったく読めないんですよ。
    この子を友達にしてしまったのが運の尽きということで、あまり深く考えずに適当に付き合っていきましょう。

  2. 2. 名無しの激おこさん

    ウザいですね。そういう子ってアドバイスは聞く耳持たず、ただ自分の話を肯定してほしいんですよね。めんどくさいなあと思ってしまいます。いつまでも学生気分というか悲劇のヒロイン気取りというか。少しずつ距離を置くのが今後のために良いと思います。あなたがドヨーンとした気持ちになる必要なんてちっともないんですから。

  3. 3. 名無しの激おこさん

    悲劇のヒロイン思考ですねぇ。それは付き合うのも気が重いことでしょう。
    まさに自己中心的。
    なんとなくですが、あなたのことを下に見ている傾向があるのではないでしょうか?
    「こんな健気でかわいそうな自分が幸せになれないのに、Nさんには彼がいる、キィー!」といった感情が隠れているのでは?
    友人というのは支えあうものだと思います。自分ばかりを可愛がるご友人とは距離をおいてもいいのかもしれませんよ。

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